Hello, dear one!
When you want a certain thing, a job, a home, a car, or a dream partner, you’ll naturally work hard and find every access to obtain it.
But, what are you working hard on will either expertise or delay your manifestation.
Upon returning home from a beach trip, my son desperately wanted to dine at a top-rated restaurant in a town.
The problem? The temperature was 98 degrees outside, and the ambiance of the restaurant was high-end and not dog-friendly.
Putting his furry friend first, my son agreed to look for an alternative restaurant that would accommodate our husky dog.
We drove on the main street, seeking both sides of the road diligently for possibilities.
No luck.
We decided to let go and keep driving to the next town.
Suddenly, at the end of the main road and before hitting the freeway, we heard loud Mexican music on our right side through the car windows.
There was a big white tent in front of a Mexican restaurant. We parked the car and checked it out.
It turned out to be a local farmers’ home restaurant. Everyone who either served or ate at the tables spoke Spanish.
The cool mist in the tent was perfect for our dog, so we got a table.
Our waitress didn’t speak English, but we managed to look around at other people’s dishes and ordered what we thought might be good.
When our group seafood dish came, we were pleasantly surprised at the generous amount and variety. The taste was like from an Italian grandma’s kitchen!
This was the experience that we were supposed to have that day!
When we realized what we wanted wasn’t going to happen that day, we let it go. When we did that, we allowed the Universe to open its channels.
The magic happened when we detached ourselves from a specific outcome.
We humans only see matters, the physical things like a dream mate, an ideal job, a desirable car, or a cozy home.
Underneath all layers of any physical matter which we want, there is energy. Everything in Universe is an energy and vibrates at its unique frequency.
When we want something so desperately, we often use our human heads to calculate how it should come. But the limited human way often blocks the energy flow and delays its manifestation.
For example, you’ve applied for an ideal job. As you prepare for the job interview, you might work hard on learning about the company, the job description, and your personal appearance and interview techniques.
But in reality, the most important thing is for you to relax and detach yourself from having this job. If it’s meant for you, it’s yours regardless of your preparation and interview skills.
The energy of detachment is what will get you the right job.
The same goes for a soul mate. Nobody deserves to be in a relationship or friendship feeling unfulfilled. A soul mate should feel home-coming. The more you don’t care about seeking one, the faster the soul mate will show up in your life.
One of the hardest life lessons is to learn detachment.
If you’ve conditioned yourself to identify yourself with external material things, then who are you without your ideal job, dream home, or closest partner and friends?
Life will keep teaching you the lesson of detachment as you lose things you care about the most so that you can find your true self.
If you’ve been brainwashed to work hard to look for comfort, confirmation, or approval from others, this is the time to find yourself inwardly.
You can’t lose things that belong to you, and you can’t hold on to things that you’re not a match to.
Nothing happens by accident.
If you stumble upon this article, the Universe is guiding you to come home to yourself as Jesus taught:
The kingdom of heaven is within you. You’ve got everything you need now in you.